请别把别人对你的好当成理所当然。

A不喜欢吃鸡蛋

每次发了鸡蛋都给B吃

刚开始B很感谢

久而久之便习惯了

习惯了便理所当然

于是

直到有一天

A将鸡蛋给了C

B就不爽了

她忘记了这个鸡蛋本来就是A的

A想给谁都可以

为此她们大吵一架

从此绝交……

有一年

很热的夏天

一队人出去漂流

女孩的拖鞋在玩水的时候

把拖鞋掉下去了、沉底了

到岸边的时候

全是晒的很烫的鹅卵石

他们要走很长的一段路

于是

女孩就向别人寻求帮忙

可是谁都只有一双拖鞋

女孩心里很不爽

因为她习惯了向别人求助

而只要撒娇就会得到满意地答复

可是这次却没有

她忽然觉得这些人都不好

都见死不救

后来

有一个男孩将自己的拖鞋给了她

然后自己赤脚在那晒得滚烫的鹅卵石上走了很久的路

还自嘲说是铁板烧

女孩表示感谢

男孩说：

你要记住

没有谁是必须要帮你的

帮你是出于交情

不帮你是应该

女孩记住了男孩的话

自此以后

学会了对施以援手的人铭记在心

并给以更大的回报

很多时候

我们总是希望得到别人的好

一开始感激不尽

可是久了便是习惯了

习惯了一个人对你的好

便认为是理所应当的

有一天不对你好了

你便觉得怨怼

其实

不是别人不好了

而是我们的要求变多了

习惯了得到

便忘记了感恩

转贴

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My Like bo ki liao ! =((((

I changed my reactions frome like? to LIKE!

And blogspot turns everything back to zero.

Walau. So down ! :(

Wei... help me like la.

hahhahahaha.

fyi,

the photo from the previous blogpost 'LOVE' is the photo I submitted for a photo contest organized by our school sixth form society.

and the theme is LOVE.

Sharing some quotes I've read from the book chawyeh lend me named 《这不是第四本书》

written by 黄俊朗

做人最难的那个部分 并不是该怎么做才能让别人喜欢

而是，做了之后 自己到底喜不喜欢那样的自己

[ 离开 ]

离开 那是为了自己 还是别人 我想了很久才知道不重要 回来的那个自己 才重要

[ 爱的孤独 ]

真正的 深沉的爱 是孤独的 因为 放得太深 所以别人看不见

所以 只有自己的心里 才会知道

alright, for now,

I've only read until here, the rest I'll update it next time kay?

stay tune, my fellow readers !

don't forget to help me like the previous blogpost.

I'm abit down because of that.

Make me happy kay?

=DDDD

LOVE

" I always remember the way you hold me when I needed you the most. "

Yes!

I've made it !

Efforts paid.

=)

Thanks to the vains.

随便写写

很多时候，我真的很想找人说说话。

在那时候，在我脑里也浮现了几个熟悉的面孔。

可不知道为什么，到最后，我还是自己把事情给‘解决’ 了。

大多是自己消化事情。

所以，到最后，真的也没把事情分享出来。

久而久之，也忘了，那曾经烦过的问题。

我想，这已经是一种习惯。

有趣的是，我们都一样。

我们都用同样的方法解决自己的问题。

或许，我们都知道，唯有自己可以帮自己解决自己的问题。

没有人会喜欢听你的烦恼，也没有人可以帮你解决。

无可否认，听者可以帮你分担。

但是，到最后，面对问题的还是你自己。

我一直相信，痛苦/悲伤应该自己承受，自己承担。

这样，成长的速度会更快。

同时，也不会让关心我们的人担心。

其实，我们都是矛盾的人。

很矛盾很矛盾的人。

很多时候，我们都想这样又想那样的。

做不了决定，三心两意。

好的话，可能达到满意的结果。

反之，可能两头不到岸。

我也相信，不要极度讨厌任何一个人，有一天，你会变成他。

打个比喻，你讨厌自私的人，但，你有没有发现，最自私的可能是你自己呢？

人人都渴望得到他人的谅解，但是，在你希望得到别人的谅解的时候，你敢确定自己是一个很会谅解别人的人吗?

还有，长大了。

是时候知道管理情绪的重要性。

假设你不爽，你就摆脸色，这样对吗？

你有没有想过别人的感受吗？

为什么其他人有必要收你的气呢？

我是一个对别人的情绪很明感的人。

所以，我真的不是很喜欢情绪化的人。

请不要对号入座。

＝）

这是那天在庙会拍的。

还可以吗？

经常损你 - 因为我相信我们的关系

There are a list of people in my speed dial contact, do you know you're one of them?

Sometimes, the telepathy between friends are simply inexplicable.

Nothing can explain this phenomena

where both sides of people are thinking or feeling the same at the particular moment.

It just happens so naturally.

1〉关系越好的，往往是最爱损你的。

2〉和她们说话时，你总是能自动屏蔽那些不爱听的。

3〉你的毛病她们永远比你更清楚。

4〉碰到你以前喜欢过的人，她们总是特别激动地喊你快看快看。

5〉有了小秘密，总是第一个想跟她们分享。

6〉其实最关心你的，永远是那个最爱打击你的。

7〉你们有着或多或少的相同的爱好，哪怕只有一点点。

8〉只有在她们面前的那个，才是最最真实的你。

9〉你们一块腐一块抽，被旁人当神经病也笑得灿烂。

10〉你们有着自己的小世界，虽然没有故意，但也是不经意的排他。

11〉你们约定着，总是有那么那么多的以后。其实只是分不开。

12〉你们好到会经常被人说有同.性.恋。

13〉其实你们会经常吵架，却总是厚着脸皮磨回来。

14〉你总是所想到的只有她是不是能幸福。

15〉你可以无限制的随时随地欺负她，却不允许外人凶她一句。

16〉你总是一副很花.痴的样子，她们一边说你没眼光，一边伸着脖子陪你一起看。

17〉当某个人不在时，一群人会理所当然地想同样的情况下那个人会怎样做。

18〉被猜中心事的你，永远都只会“哼”的一声扭过脸去死不承认。

19〉即使你总是埋怨她们给你买的东西不好看，也总是挺高兴的用着。

20〉即使你想说句好听的话，却发现那样的肉麻根本不合适。

21〉你们喜欢买相同的东西，无论大小，生怕全世界不知道你们好。

22〉你们总是同情心泛滥，说着BS你，心里也挺同意。

23〉你们都是善良的人，所想的都只是简简单单，快快乐乐的过一辈子。

24）这样的人 需要时间的磨合 。

via facebook article =)

this is indeed very true!

I always trust the bond between us is not fragile.

考试 心情

这是我第一次，那么的不喜欢考试。

原因简单，我没有做好准备。

还没考，我已经知道成绩了。

放假前，我还很大声的说，放假后考试很不错，

放假可以限制自己好好读书！

结果咧？

以前的时候，不管有没有做好准备去考试，感觉都一样。

中六了，没有准备好，就会很内疚。

也只会内疚。

太失败了。

反省了这么多次，还是一样。

我越来越看不起自己。

我还真的很没用！

我根本不能给自己一个交代。

不是不知道自己应该怎样做，而是力不从心。

烧掉电脑，应该是很不错的方法！

我，自甘堕落。

我要赶快好起来，一定要！

I hate it when I know all the ShouldS but I did all the Shouldn'tS.

I'm an attention seeker !

liking me !

=P

Posting a status, uploading photos in facebook aren't for sharing purpose actually.

The actual reason behind is just to gain 'likes' from others.

Thus, it implies that you're an attention-seeker.

quoted by litchen.

True enough.

And unfortunately, I'm one of them.

But my purpose mainly contains of two parts.

One is of course for sharing.

Second one is to gain 'likes'.

The more people like, the more I feel accomplished, the more happier I am.

I gain confidence by the liking system.

So it actually motivates me to post more quotes people may like/agree with me.

some written by myself, some copied.

And I like LIKE.

It seems that we're blurring the original purpose of doing that particular thing.

So what? I'm happy !

hahahaha.

So if you agree with me, please LIKE !

So if you disagree with me, you may not LIKE it.

Or you can also don't want to LIKE it intentionally.

By doing this, you will not boost my confidence level but lowering it.

Owh, so sad!

People always like affirmation and compliments from others.

Are you an attention-seeker too?

=)

Sometime, I like to be high profile.

Sometime, I like to be low profile too.

So, it all depends.

I'm not a severe attention-seeker patient after all.

=D

Just a lil bit, like really a lil.

她懂我。

kindly enlarge it if it is too small for you to read by just clicking it =D

以上都是我的love letter from 我的她。

=P

陈诗敏就是那个她。

她很懂我哦！

爱死她！

你懂我吗?

你认同她所形容的吗？

=)

不管怎样，可以被朋友了解得彻底，

我还是很高兴。真的真的很高兴。

Owh yeah, 我最近才发现到，我是一个表达能力很差的人。

还差得离谱。

我的朋友，谢谢你。

你真的很棒！

The SUEY-est ones

Sometimes, in life, you'll met the suey-est people you've ever met.

You seriously dislike them.

However,

At the same time, these suey-est people are the ones you like the most.

Being bullied is fun.

Being laughed and humiliated by them are more fun.

Life without making fun with each others is rather too dull.

No matter how time passes by, the feelings never change.

It is the same as it used to be.

At time, you might think that does this friendship will last forever?

And you'll wonder what is forever.

I guess the things that left unsaid deep inside our heart

will be the answer for the question stated above.

No one knows, how long does forever lasts.

As nothing last forever.

To me, I think as long as you trust this bond we have build up.

I have no fear on this entire friendship I called.

For at least I know the value of it.

Simply irreplaceable.

Here are some of the faces of those suey-est people I've ever met.

No. 1 Suey-est!

She is the greatest inventor of those suey-est phrase you've ever heard.

No.2 Suey-est !

She is the one who can have an equal first with the 1st, but because she is darker in colour, she has to become the 1st runner up!

No. 3 Suey-est !

She won't save any faces for you. Straight forward shoot you till gai gai.

No.4 Suey-est !

Last time diam diam, just laugh beside. Now, becoming more and more pro in shooting people.

No.5 Suey-est !

Diam-diam ubi berisi.

Once she opens her mouth shooting, you will be surprised of what she said.

Don't underestimate her.

不管怎样，回忆起过去的点点滴滴，总让我觉得很温暖。

他们，就是我最好的朋友！

＝Ｄ

我就是爱假假了解他们！

about suicide problem

I've been thinking quite a lot since yesterday after tuition.

Fyi, it's MUET tuition conducted by Mr.Felix.

I've learn a lot from what he had discussed with us.

First, I would like to thank him for sharing his thoughts with us.

He is indeed a great teacher, always so confident, and he is really good in analyzing people and things.

Suicide problem. Why people commit suicide? Who should be blame?

It sounds not that interesting huh?

I've noticed that the bonding of teenagers with parents are no longer strong.

Do your parents know your friends that you mix around with?

Parents aren't playing quite good role, they don't seem to care bout their children that much.

As we all know, those who attempt suicide show warning sign before they really did it.

Who cares? Who take this seriously?

Do we try our best to keep an eye on this issue?

Is there anyone who stand out and voice up how should we curb this?

Are we going to remain silent? What are the effective way to solve this social issue?

Lots and lots of question popping up on my mind. I'll stop it here.

Those professional who are expert in treating mental health problems should do something.

Educate the public on handling this kind of people around us.

Fellow parents, have you ever try to understand your child's feeling?

Are you sure they're doing good in school, with their peers, or even relationship problems?

Do you know they have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

They may look happy, but they might not be that happy as you thought.

Observe their attitude. Keep them accompanied.

No matter you care or not, just act like you care.

I'm sure they will feel better than what you expect.

Alright, this is just like an essay. Sorry for that. =)

Muet trial tomorrow !

May myself break a leg !

but not to the wrong door

turn around, and you'll found me !

=D

What Are Words by Chris Medina

He is an American Idol. She is his fiancee.

She is unlucky with the incident happened on her.

However, she is the luckiest girl because she found Him.

This is all about love. A true one.

It is indeed too touching yet sweet with the lyrics.

Can you feel the love?

=)

Here's the story of Him and Her..

He always sing all his heart out.

You can feel it from the way he sings.

So so so warm and touch!

Heart-rending, right?

<3

Love is really wonderful.

He is a real man.