我想问。。。

你们相信

一见钟情

还是

日久生情?

本人相信日久生情
因为往往第一印象再好到最后都不是真实的。

我一直想告诉我的朋友的是
请好好了解一个人后
再判断他或她是否值得你去喜欢或爱。
有时候看你们喜欢/爱得那么辛苦
还真是心疼，
我明明知道那个人不值得你再这样爱下去
也不想插手你们感情的事
但，
有过不了自己心里的那一关
好想劝你们不要再这样下去
却又怕你们觉得我在挑破离间，多管闲事。


毕竟我们还未成熟
我们也不知道什么是恋爱/爱/喜欢
却一直在学人家怎样恋爱/爱/喜欢
不懂装懂
明明就没有这个资格去谈恋爱
专心学业吧
其他事情以后大把时间给你去理
做好学生/孩子的本分
别让大人们为我们这些小瓜操心
若真的恋爱了
就认真地面对那段感情吧
别抱着玩玩的心态
因为爱
一点都不好玩！


以上纯粹自己的个人意见 XD

SADNESS THAT IS INEXPLICABLE - 无法解释的悲伤

I've been so weird these days .
Many things happened to me .
but I'm kind of senseless and starting to lost myself .
I don't know what i am really thinking .
I don't know what i am doing .
I can't express myself
and I am so suffer .
the weirdy thing is
I'm very normal physically but not mentally .
I act normal `
I talk normal `
and I do looks normal `
I'm kind of contradict -.-''
I hope my juniors can tell me what they are thinking
but my juniors ask me to tell them what i am thinking too .
they felt unfair .
but the thing is not i don't wanna tell them ,
but is actually me myself also don't know what i am thinking .
that's the main and also the biggest problem .
they tell me that they can settle their problems their self
but should I let go and let them solve their problems by their own self ??
to be frank
I can't solve their problems
I don't have the ability to solve those problems
conclusion: I AM A FAILURE
they felt very sorry to me
I had listened to the word 'SORRY' for many many times d
what I want to listen from them not this word
but they felt very sorry to me and they just keep on saying sorry
this is not I want
the more they repeat the word 'SORRY' the more guilty i felt
I feel like I should be the one that need to say sorry to them
they wanted to help me because they felt that I am stressed
they want me to share my sorrows with them
is not that I don't want
sometimes.. things are really hard to say
I know you all care about me
what i want to say is thank you and
I'm touched
although I'm
'down' 'depressed' 'helpless' 'sad'
'guilty' 'frustrated' 'moody' 'lost my own path'
I wont GIVE UP anyone of you
I'm scared that I can't handle so many of you
but I'll still do my very best to give the greatest support to all of you
no matter what, I'll still be there for all of you .



SPECIALLY FOR ALL MY JUNIORS ALTHOUGH THEY MAY NOT SEE THIS POST
-YiLiNg``

让过去， 成为永远的过去吧！

让过去，成为永远的过去吧。人，是一个永远都猜不透的个体，所以，我们也不必单纯只想去了解别人。很多时候，别人对我们产生了误解，我们并没有必要向任何人解释清楚。就算解释了，别人和未必会相信你所说的。为什么我们的心，就一定要因为别人而影响自己？

虚幻的空间，存有太多让人解不开的谜题。有时候，我们的矛头，总是指向别人，而忘了事实上，我们何尝不是和他们一样？我们的态度，行为，淡吐等。选择保持沉默，只是希望在心灵上，能够取得一个平衡点。真正的充实自己，比空口说白话更为有意义。人与人之间的关系，已不必过于强求。

有谁是真的可以在情绪极为波动时，冷静地站在另一个角度思考？有谁不是在受伤之后，才学会变得冷酷无情，保护自己？有谁是真的可以没有因为任何的理由，以平常心对待一段友情？有谁是可以放下自己的原则，去配合他人所说的道理？有谁可以了解，对一个受过伤害的人而言，在伤口洒盐的滋味，是怎样的感觉？answer是，没有人。没有人会懂，也没有人会知道，没有人会了解。

每一个人的生活方式都不一样，我们没有资格批评别人的，也没有必要因为别人的批评而改变自己。倘若我们，只为别人而活出自己，这样的生命，有何意义？凡事必须学会放下，让自己的生活轻松一些。让最初成为最后，最完美的成为永远。我们都学习成长，学习在逆境中站稳，在跌倒时爬起。

当我发现，身边所有的一切都改变时，我不由得问自己：是时间改变了我，还是你们的改变，让时间改变了我？是我在成长，还是在你们当配角，我当主角的那一刻，心，改变了。停留不住的空间，我选择让自己随着它，永远不停留。过去不是虚幻，未来亦不是真实。不要总是学会埋怨，因为埋怨只会让自己停留，无法前进。快乐与难过只是瞬间的感受，要太执著于生命中的起起伏伏。就算今天让你得到了你一直以来所渴望的，亦不代表它永远就属于你。

将心放下，学着放下，让自己真正的去体验，没有包袱的轻松。给自己一个肯定，好吗？雨后的彩虹，再美，也只是衬托物。让下雨天，成为美丽的雨滴，而不是上天灌溉下的眼泪；不是心，流着的血。即使你一脸无辜，也不代表你懵懂。有些事情，倘若你自己不要去改变它，你就会永远被它结束着，无怨无悔。让过去，成为永远的过去吧！时间，不会回头；我们，也无法回到过去。。。。。。



摘自某报章

虽然以上文章并不是笔于我，但，我希望可以和我的朋友们分享我所喜欢的一切事物！ 也在此感谢懿睿，让我读到这编好有意义的文章！

LAST YEAR'S LIFE

I miss last year life very much
it is much more relax, enjoy, meaningful
miss
``E3G
`` the one sitting beside me and the one around me
``the one that accompany me acting foolish during exam
`` the one that sing and dance in class with me
`` teachers that endure me
`` teachers that i made them suffer from heart attack
``teachers that trust on me
``the one that non-stop laugh n talk to me
``the one that cheers me
`` the one that bully me
``the one that perli me
`` the one that sama-sama buat tindakan yang tidak baik with me
``the one that ponteng with me
``the one that play a fool with me


i MISS you ALL !!!
Take Care MY dear E3G lovely FRIENDS!!!