G . R . A . N . D . M . A

this is the CUTE pic of my granny.
cute?

my cousin and my ah ma.

ahma was trying to kepo with what my cousin bro was eating.

hand injured! sobx T.T

finally, quite yam de me and HER.



these are the pictures that were taken on our family day in ISLAND RED CAFE


hmm.. through these pictures
can you sense the CUTENESS of my ahma ?
If you did.. then you've been fooled by the pics

first and foremost..
I can't deny she is very annoying
she can COMPLAIN the same thing for the whole day
and cause sound pollution indirectly
everytime I'll just escape from the scene whenever she starts the engine
things that she repeat such as :
+scolding the same person with her TOOT wordings+
+blaming how suffer her life is+
+blaming her daughter's husband+
+blaming her daughters+
+how hungry she is+
+how uncomfortable staying in anyone's house+
etc etc..


maybe you'll wonder how she could repeat the same thing without feeling bored huh?
let me tell you
she can twist here and there
by changing ayat dasar to ayat songsang
wow
fantastic!
ayah dasar: wa jin jia eiao..bo beh mi kia ho wa jiak ar?!
ayat songsang: bo beh mi kia ho wa jiak ar..wa jin jia eiao!

or

ayat aktif to ayat pasif
ayat aktif: wa bo mi kia jiak eh eiao si arr..
ayat pasif: wa eh eiao si arr asi bo jiak mi kia..


there are still something that is more exciting
i remember once
she go into her room
come out that time
she ask me
'ah ling ar.. lu tao tek(steal) wa eh te kor(panties) hior?'
I was like
oh my god!!!
then she continue
'wa eh te kor(panties) lu pun beh cheng(cant wear) siao leng(too loose)'
and I was like
'ho sim lar.. ju zui(who) ai tao tek lu eh te kor?'
my mum and dad beside already laughing non-stop
then she go into the room again
come out and say
'ah ling ar.. lu wu tao tek wa eh lai bin sar(bra) o?'
I replied ' ah ma ar!!!!'
then ran upstairs
lmao


she is now already 80 years old
she is consider quite strong d according to her age
she is very FORGETFUL
she can ask me
'ah ling ar.. lu tak(study) form4 asi form5?'
due to her hearing problem
I didn't shout at her
it will waste my strength shouting at her
she could hardly hear it
just show her '4'
then she say
'wa.. aneh tua han liao'
she look at the tv for a moment
then ask me again
'ah ling ar.. lu tak form4 liao asi form5?'
show her again '4'
then she replied again
'ha..ah ling tak form4 liao..tua han liao'
this conversation can repeat at least 2 times n up to 10 times
I'm not kidding
I'm used to it
so I'll just stand by my hand '4' there


the sad part is
she is aging very fast
totally not under my expectation
she no longer can do the things that she can do last time
when she was taking care of me
during my primarys

last time ..
= she can cook for me
= she can accompany me to wait for the bus
= she can help me to tidy my messy things
= she can clean and tidy the whole house
= she can go to market to buy anything she want
= she can wake me up when I was late by singing songs
= she can give me angpau with a larger amount of money =P

now ..
- she spit all over the toilet bowl and basin
- she simply use a cloth to wipe her mouth
- she simply throw useful things into the dustbin without noticing
- she walk with tongkat
- her hand fractured causes her no strength to take heavy things
- walks very slow and somemore can't balance herself
- forget what she ate
- forget this and that


Usually
my mum's EQ is quite high no matter what situation
but my mum's EQ is not high dealing with my grandma
she cannot accept the way she scold ppl which is not wrong
she cannot accept she always blame the place she is staying
in short = my mum just could'nt accept her attitude
wait a minute
my mum is not bad
she still obey what my grandma wants
just i will be the victim as my mum will complain it to me
she treats her very well
buy her all the things that she wants
she take cares the things that we neglect
she will always remember to buy things for my granny to eat
she knows what she likes very well
compared to my dad
that is woman!
HAHA


In this case..
my EQ is much more higher than my mum ^^
at first
me myself also can't accept the changes of my granny
but later on
I start to accept
she is old
she is forgivable
NO HER NO ME
how could I dare to blame her?
I'll just take all the things she scold as nothing
although it hurts and unfair to that particular person
but what can I do?
that is her concept of mind
I can't change it
I just want her to satisfied and be happy with her life
I'm afraid one day she will leave us
so now
I'm taking pictures with her
and I'll appreciate
No matter how long she can still be with us
what I wish god could bless her with
staying HEALTHY always!
fortunately
till now
she have no any illness
the hand is just a minor fracture
she is still FINE!



AHMA!! WA AI LI!! =P

love you always
- ah ling-