Saturday, January 30, 2010

Working .

Like what I entitled, I'm currently working for part-time job.
Where? As?
It is located at D Piazza Mall, a cafe named D' FOOD GARDEN.
To know where is D Piazza Mall, it is actually in between sunshine square bayan baru and PISA. Further down after Old Town Bayan Baru. Just beside Mayang Mall as if you know. LOL
As waitress !
Yeah, I kinda dislike working life actually.
It took away my freedom.
I should be enjoying my three months post-spm holiday.
But, why should I get myself stick to the working schedule?
All in all, I just wanted to have a working experience.
Till now, I considered my working place as a not-bad-lah !
At least, I get to savour delicious foods every single working day.
*tamjiak!*
Yes, I am.
Anyway,
Hehe, I failed to be a PRO. I just broke a glass yesterday =P
Luckily, my boss wasn't angry with me. *phew*

Do you believe there are no any MSG / ajinomoto in our foods?
Also, we don't charge service charge and government tax ! GOOD?
Our fruit juice and dessert is way very worthy to drink !
In kopitiam, they blend just a little piece of the fruits and added VERY MUCH WATER AND SUGAR!
But us, we blend BIG PIECE of fruits and just added very little water and sugar !
You can taste healthy food yet I-am-sure-you-will-be-fulled-meal with a reasonable price !
So, no harm trying, right?!
Friends out there, to show your support, just come and visit me lah ! I seriously need it !
Yes, I'm promoting ! We are open from Monday till Saturday only. Our business hours is from 11am to 9pm. Please don't come too late. 830pm the latest ya =) I wanna go home earlier what.
Alright, that's all ! =]


P/s : If you still don't know where it is about, just come to me.
P/s 2 : I will quit my job on the 11th of feb, so, faster come lah ! hehe
P/s 3 : Support me and my cafe will do, don't go the restaurant beside my cafe! *thumbs down*
P/s 4 : We have vacancy for waiter/waitress / kitchen helper too. Kindly come for walk-in-interview between 3 to 5. Faster come interview!!




Posted by the only waitress of D' Food Garden , Tan Yi Ling .

Friday, January 22, 2010

Aspire to Inspire Before You Expire



Quite a mouthful isn’t it? Say it fast and you’ll trip over the words most likely. I saw this phrase on a church marquis as I was driving and it sparked my interest to the point that I thought about what it could mean. Here are my thoughts.

To aspire simply means to have a yearning or desire to do something and strive to do it. An aspiring individual is ambitious, hopeful and enthusiastic. This is the kind of person you’d want as a team player in your business for he would keep spirits up and the momentum flowing.

Inspire on the other hand refers to the spirit of encouragement as well as the ability to stimulate creative activity. It is that internal spark needed to make things happen – basically to get off the sofa and get into action. An inspiring individual is uplifting, stimulating, exciting and motivates. This person can light the fire needed to begin the action.

This is exactly what a coach does – lights a fire within their client to make changes. What is a coach? Simply a guide who ascertains a perspective outside the life “game” that the client is in the midst of. As a player in the middle of the game it is hard to see all perspectives since that person is concentrating on their position and viewpoint. An outsider can often see the greater picture and offer new thoughts while encouraging and stimulating the individual into action.

As individuals travel their life path they often find themselves in a place of feeling stuck. Perhaps they’ve been playing their life “game” for a while and are tired of the same playing field. Change is necessary but they can’t see the big picture because they’re still on the playing field. Or maybe they simply want to do something more rewarding and different. Perhaps you’ve been in this place; maybe you are there right now.

Inspiring someone to make changes and become “unstuck” so they can move in a new direction in their life is such a rewarding endeavor. Supporting an individual who needs to know someone cares can uplift both individuals to a place of inner satisfaction. As a wholeness coach, helping people see their potential and gain understanding that if they can imagine it they can do it is the most fulfilling aspect of my life. Watching an individual make positive changes in their life and see the smile spread across their face once they “get it,” does indeed make my heart soar.

But we can take inspiration a step further and reference a deeper meaning. Inspiration can also refer to divine guidance. In this context it means breathe into or draw into the lungs as the breath of life. Inspiration here is the flow of a divine energy that enters one’s thoughts and heart easily without any forethought or contemplation. My books come in this way and I’m sure most authors would attest to this kind of inspiration while writing their works. In fact, I am routinely influenced with divine wisdom every day of my life and cannot imagine life without this guidance. An inspired life such as this leaves the ego outside of the equation for the most part.

I believe that allowing yourself to become inspired and then sharing your thoughts, words and actions with others so that you inspire them in some way, is the ultimate fulfillment in this lifetime. We each came here with a gift to share and our responsibility is to uncover it with inspired guidance, allowing inspiration to help it unfold, and then taking inspired action to do it. Inspired living is spirit-driven whereas a usual lifestyle is ego-driven.

Perhaps you’ve been nudged to move forward in a new direction – change your vocation, write a book, take some training, open a new business – but you are hesitating because you doubt you have the time, resources or capabilities to do it, or you’re simply in a state of fear about moving in this new direction. You are most likely receiving divine inspiration and if you follow that guidance it will bring you amazing results that will include peacefulness and inner fulfillment. Maybe you’ve felt guided to help others in some way, to support, love, guide or encourage them on their journey.

There is no joy greater than knowing you inspired someone into action. Many leave this planet with their music still inside them, and what a tragedy that is. Maybe all they needed was someone to inspire and stimulate them, to believe in them and help them see their potential. What a gift that would be for that person to receive. And think how awesome it would be if you were the giver of that gift!

So in summing up the meaning of the phrase aspire to inspire before you expire, it simply says to have the desire to arouse and positively influence an individual into action so that they fulfill their innermost desires before they die and leave this planet. And it also applies to you – allowing inspiration to flow through you so that you too experience an inspired life. As always, the choice is yours! Be the inspiration!
P/S : I am not the writer of the paragraphs above. Just for sharing! =)

Thursday, January 7, 2010

沒那麼簡單 黃小琥

沒那麼簡單 就能找到 聊得來的伴
尤其是在 看過了那麼多的背叛
總是不安 只好強悍
誰謀殺了我的浪漫

沒那麼簡單 就能去愛 別的全不看
變得實際 也許好也許壞各一半
不愛孤單 一久也習慣
不用擔心誰 也不用被誰管

感覺快樂就忙東忙西
感覺累了就放空自己
別人說的話 隨便聽一聽 自己作決定
不想擁有太多情緒
一杯紅酒配電影
在周末晚上 關上了手機 舒服窩在沙發裡

相愛沒有那麼容易 每個人有他的脾氣
過了愛作夢的年紀 轟轟烈烈不如平靜
幸福沒有那麼容易 才會特別讓人著迷
什麼都不懂的年紀
曾經最掏心 所以最開心 曾經

想念最傷心 但卻最動心 的記憶


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zORszoIuQU



p/s: I guess I disappoint you guys again. No pictures. No words from myself. But it is definitely a song you must listen. Meaningful lyrics, powerful vocal. Highly recommend! =)

Monday, December 28, 2009

yehyeh! mine is true =) lol

莎呜女
性格:乐于助人的大姐大
[莎呜]型的女人,同时拥有铁面无情与温情主义的特质。她既能冷静地观察,仔细分析对方的性格或现场气氛,又能体贴对方的心情,给与无微不至的照顾。
她的铁面无情,令人感觉很有男子气概和责任感,因而在同性间扮演“大姐头”或“师傅”的角色,受人爱慕。自然而然地吸引人靠近,形成紧密的人际网,并能彼此保持适当的距离交往。由于很懂得如何引起人的共鸣,即使在饮酒聚会的场合,也可以与众人打成一片,炒热现场的气氛。不过,[莎呜]女即使待人接物亲切和善,仍然时时警醒着权衡情势,随时掌握状况。很多时候无意中就让她占了便宜。
只不过,一旦燃起她的温情主义,一不小心很容易就关照过了头,往往不经意地便多管闲事。由于好打听内幕秘密,因而很在意旁人的言论和面子,时时留意别人对自己的看法。尤其是对自己心意对象的想法和一举一动,更是随时警觉,并迅速调整自己配合对方,努力想要赢得对方的赞赏和好印象,但也因为这样而迷失了自我。由于考虑穿着打扮要能够立即付各种状况,因此旅行时总是带过多的行李。

工作:做事有诀窍的统筹者
[莎呜]女能确实掌握事情的关键,让业务顺利推展。她的人际沟通能力一级棒,很会带动气氛、附和别人,属于多管闲事型的人。善于沉着冷静地洞烛先机,让工作进行得很有效率。
在会议上,当讨论偏离议题时,她能够技巧圆润地将讨论导回正规。适合从事制作女性商品、信息科技公司的董事长秘书等职位。
只要是心意对象的请托,即使不合理也无法拒绝,因此可能会工作过度,搞坏身体。并常常因为深得部署或上司的信任,而被过度依赖,工作量大增,渐渐无法理清自己工作的目的和责任,陷入两难的局面。虽然偶尔会发生不像自己会犯的失误,但因为个性讨人喜欢,大多会得到别人的原谅。

金钱:拥有财富既是幸福
“有钱的地方就有幸福”是[莎呜]女的座右铭。很爱钱,平日总思考着要如何增加财富。由于以金额这样严肃的数字为衡量基础,也连带会影响到她购物的心情,所以只要有钱就感到无比幸福,反过来说,囊中羞涩时,连心情也会荡到谷底。心情好坏经常与财富多寡成正比。
由于贪求“俗又大碗”,因此积极寻觅便宜的商品或是B级的美食飨宴。
非常喜欢别人请客,自己则一毛不拔,禀性中带着吝啬的潜质,相当精明能干。属于积少成多的储蓄型人物。由于渴望财富增加,所以也会积极从事股票买卖等理财投资。

恋爱:重点攻击的专家
[莎呜]型的女人兼具男性的冷静判断和女性的温柔体贴,处处关照别人,因此大多很有男人缘。不过,也因为这样,对任何人都和颜悦色,给人八面玲珑的感觉。
她能够瞬间判断出对方是恋爱、结婚或是交朋友的对象,妥善掌控自己的情感。其中,对于被划归为恋爱对象的目标,会不吝投注心力与热情。
一旦锁定目标,便使尽各种花招将对方弄到手了。依赖、被依赖、利用女色,或对他不理不睬,在掌握恋爱的窍门之外,更一进一退地操弄感情,看着自己逐渐占领对方的心。想必恋爱的成功率相当高吧?
在性爱方面,会尽可能满足对方的需求。即使是变态的行为,也宽容以对。但同时也会精打细算,追求自我的快乐,因此能否体验到绝妙的性生活,全凭交往的对象如何。
不过,[莎呜]女会擅自在恋爱和热情、结婚和经济之间画上等号,并被此过度局限,因而往往无法畅快地谈一场恋爱。生性严谨,却在心里幻想着如烈火般燃烧的热情,然后自个儿一头热,有时会让对方却步,必须注意。

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Lessons of LIFE

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12.. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God
never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is
up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for
an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't
save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will
this matter?".

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did
or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd
grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.



PS: received this from jiahui =) Feel more like sharing when I saw weiying post this too. Haha. enjoy! =))))

still photos for the 17th =P

1st cake of the day.
homemade from my mum!

heida . tommy . juicy

us =)
nice nice picture


yeah~ happy birthday to me (=




banyak tangan ni!



juicy . grasshopper . tommy . bikini
with strawberries



heida is happy with the strawberry.






heida felt so disappointed with the strawberry.


group photo =]




the friends for life! ^^

end of birthday celebration with the mushrooms.
it supposed to be a surprise party right?
anyway, I'm very touched.
love you guys always ><





2nd surprised party :

piece from yisean
like it!



with the greenish watermelon dolphin from e group juniors
you guys really thought that I like dolphin that much huh? lol



kath the childish XP



greenish dolphin with watermelon skin!
hahaha.
I like watermelon, indeed.

so,
do you like me
yes or no
( circle one )
this is the shirt i couldnt fit it anyway. -.-


the necklace .



2nd cake of the day!



cut cake cut cake.



those who broke into my house
it was really a surprise for the first time.
shouted like hell.

we're from A & E! hehe


wenxi : your socks are funny! LOL




yeah~~ nice one!



thank you all for the surprised party again!
it was simply superb and awesome!




alright! no more post for 17th birthday i think =)


Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Just pictures for my 17th celebration =)

the one who turns seventeen. =)



lilian the very superb friend.


jinjie the mirror =)

the one that brought me up these seventeen years
with the most sincere love and care .



sweet, aren't they?
mum was gonna kiss my dad




dad's turn!
it's been awhile they didn't kiss infront of me =P



the best mum with her dearest daughter



I love you, mother!



I love you too, DAD!



kisses from me ^^



dad . ling . mum
always the happiest family



tan tee jin !
we're friends since standard one, you know?

ong jing min the actor!




tan jin jie the long lost twin brother =P



hearts you girls! mwax!




these people I called - friends!



oops! more people this time! ^^

the planner of the day!
thank you guys so so much!





alright, below is the picture was took today!



the besties in class! love you guys lot!
I love both D.I.Y presents from both of you!
friendship is made in the heart.
silent.
unwritten.
unbreakable by distance.
unchangeable by time.
Once a friend, FOREVER a friend!
I simply love all of you!!
Yiling.


Sunday, December 13, 2009

真实 。 谎言

;
真实和谎言一起到河边洗澡。
先上岸的谎言偷偷穿上真实的衣服不肯归还。
固执的真实死也不肯穿上谎言的衣服,
只好一丝不挂光溜溜的走回家。
从此,
人们眼中只有穿着真实外衣的谎言,
却怎么也无法接受赤裸裸的真实。

Saturday, December 12, 2009

If I wrote a NOTE TO GOD

If I wrote a note to god
I would speak what's in my soul
I'd ask for all the hate to swept away
for love to overflow

If I wrote a note to god
I'd pour my heart out on each page
I'd ask for war to end and for peace to mend this world
I'd say, I'd say

I'd say give us strength to make it through
help us find love cause love is overdue
and it seems like so much is going wrong
on this road we're on

If I wrote a note to god
I'd say please find us a way
End all the bitterness, put some tenderness in our hearts
I'd say, I'd say

Grant us the faith to carry on
Give us hope when it seems all hope is gone
Cause it seems like so much is going wrong
On this road we're on

No, no
We can't do it on our own!
So, so

IF I WROTE A NOTE TO GOD

ps: It is a must Listen song yet a must Watch video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4Xd435coD4

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

the only day in a year

alright, I'm gonna blog about the whole day of my day.
first, at the time of 2343 of 29th of nov
I received a called from a insane guy
oops
hahahhaa
his name is TAN JIN JIE!
jinjie, hmm..
I'm really glad that to have a friend like you
our friendship is made in heart i believe
like last and last two years,
eventhough we seldom chat,
but we still get to be so close whenever we get along together.
that is the friendship i considered as a long lasting one.
there goes TAN JIN JIE my dearest friend! LOL
next..
I received message from a bunch of spm candidates which is out of my expectation
the list goes on with
yithing
szemeing
hanmay
lel
regina
deanjiun
yiruey
shienjoo
shunying
miyuki
geoffrey
puiyin
liewching
chawyeh
khaiying
jiahui
yanduan
my dearest MOM
sherlene
khangchien
jiayu
jiajia
xiangxiang
yenling
chinsin
huiying
huifang
hooixin
weiying
tingying
my dearest DAD
ciwping
my dearest A PEK
my dearest COUSIN SISTER
my dearest ER GU
tzeshyan
yeehua
yewyi
brenda
yvonne
my dearest COUSIN SISTER
huimei
xueting
haoyun
jiaying
teejin
chicheng
jiayen
yinyee
friends above, a thousand of thank you I would like say to you guys.
I send my deepest gratitude to all of you with all my heart
You guys really brighten up my day!
Again, THANK YOU all very very much!!!
Besides,
I did received call from my dearest KU MA
kuma, thanks for your angpao that will be given to me so soon.
to me, I feel the best where all my uncles and aunties send their wishes to me on my birthday and even before exams.
It really means a lot to me.
I feel so warm and contented to have such caring family members.
I'm seriously so 幸福!
In school,
terima kasih diucapkan kepada saudari-saudari yang bernama
yeewuan
sherlynn
elaine
lel again
chawyeh
jianmin
yingqi
huimei
connie
miyuki
cheehong
julin
shiaufern
tzebey
adeline
yunyan
shunying again
.
the surprise party!
hahahaha.
at first i really believed that yinyee was going to show me something
but then
my observance made me found out the shadow of my mum in the canteen
and so it was a surprise party
I act like I'm still in ignorance
owh yeah
was so paiseh when people sings 'happy birthday'
love my mum's cheese cake
yummy!
the strawberry and the kiwi too!
to the mushrooms,
alright
i surrender
this was really out of my expectation
though it was just a small party
I'm really happy to get the chance to celebrate with you guys on my DAY!
friends is always the best gift i gave myself
the five of you are the friends that know me more than myself
it is always my greatest pleasure to meet you guys in my high school life
and I learned a lot from you guys too
I transformed from a childish thinking kid to a more mature one now
I believe these are the friends that i'll only meet for once in a lifetime
no one can ever replace the five of you in my heart.
i really treasure and love the five of you
to vivian tan sze meing
i know you couldnt read these
but you know
that was the best present i ever had.
with the present of yours
my birthday became the bestest birthday ever
my friend
you are really important to me
you're prefect to me like i said
i can always be who i wanna be in front of you
tears drop while i was reading the thing you gave to me
THANK you, my very good friend!
to yisean, wenxi, xueting,kath,xiangxiang
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
SURPRISE !!!!!!!
break into my house and my room?!
luckily im well dressed
LOL
hmm
another five of you
what i can say is
to have juniors like you guys is one of the happiest thing in high school
i'm really touched.
thanks for the surprises
thanks for graffiti
thanks for the chain
thanks for the cake
and thanks for the
do you like me
yes or no
circle it!
although i couldnt fit myself in
you guys mean a lot to me
i always love being around with you guys
and i have a lot to say
thanks for everything
you guys are simply the best!
without this surprise party
my birthday will not be so wonderful and awesome!
till here.
pics will be uploaded in the next post.
missing the part of my dearest mum and dad.
ps: thanks to the one who wishes me in facebook too =D