Monday, December 28, 2009
yehyeh! mine is true =) lol
性格:乐于助人的大姐大
[莎呜]型的女人,同时拥有铁面无情与温情主义的特质。她既能冷静地观察,仔细分析对方的性格或现场气氛,又能体贴对方的心情,给与无微不至的照顾。
她的铁面无情,令人感觉很有男子气概和责任感,因而在同性间扮演“大姐头”或“师傅”的角色,受人爱慕。自然而然地吸引人靠近,形成紧密的人际网,并能彼此保持适当的距离交往。由于很懂得如何引起人的共鸣,即使在饮酒聚会的场合,也可以与众人打成一片,炒热现场的气氛。不过,[莎呜]女即使待人接物亲切和善,仍然时时警醒着权衡情势,随时掌握状况。很多时候无意中就让她占了便宜。
只不过,一旦燃起她的温情主义,一不小心很容易就关照过了头,往往不经意地便多管闲事。由于好打听内幕秘密,因而很在意旁人的言论和面子,时时留意别人对自己的看法。尤其是对自己心意对象的想法和一举一动,更是随时警觉,并迅速调整自己配合对方,努力想要赢得对方的赞赏和好印象,但也因为这样而迷失了自我。由于考虑穿着打扮要能够立即付各种状况,因此旅行时总是带过多的行李。
工作:做事有诀窍的统筹者
[莎呜]女能确实掌握事情的关键,让业务顺利推展。她的人际沟通能力一级棒,很会带动气氛、附和别人,属于多管闲事型的人。善于沉着冷静地洞烛先机,让工作进行得很有效率。
在会议上,当讨论偏离议题时,她能够技巧圆润地将讨论导回正规。适合从事制作女性商品、信息科技公司的董事长秘书等职位。
只要是心意对象的请托,即使不合理也无法拒绝,因此可能会工作过度,搞坏身体。并常常因为深得部署或上司的信任,而被过度依赖,工作量大增,渐渐无法理清自己工作的目的和责任,陷入两难的局面。虽然偶尔会发生不像自己会犯的失误,但因为个性讨人喜欢,大多会得到别人的原谅。
金钱:拥有财富既是幸福
“有钱的地方就有幸福”是[莎呜]女的座右铭。很爱钱,平日总思考着要如何增加财富。由于以金额这样严肃的数字为衡量基础,也连带会影响到她购物的心情,所以只要有钱就感到无比幸福,反过来说,囊中羞涩时,连心情也会荡到谷底。心情好坏经常与财富多寡成正比。
由于贪求“俗又大碗”,因此积极寻觅便宜的商品或是B级的美食飨宴。
非常喜欢别人请客,自己则一毛不拔,禀性中带着吝啬的潜质,相当精明能干。属于积少成多的储蓄型人物。由于渴望财富增加,所以也会积极从事股票买卖等理财投资。
恋爱:重点攻击的专家
[莎呜]型的女人兼具男性的冷静判断和女性的温柔体贴,处处关照别人,因此大多很有男人缘。不过,也因为这样,对任何人都和颜悦色,给人八面玲珑的感觉。
她能够瞬间判断出对方是恋爱、结婚或是交朋友的对象,妥善掌控自己的情感。其中,对于被划归为恋爱对象的目标,会不吝投注心力与热情。
一旦锁定目标,便使尽各种花招将对方弄到手了。依赖、被依赖、利用女色,或对他不理不睬,在掌握恋爱的窍门之外,更一进一退地操弄感情,看着自己逐渐占领对方的心。想必恋爱的成功率相当高吧?
在性爱方面,会尽可能满足对方的需求。即使是变态的行为,也宽容以对。但同时也会精打细算,追求自我的快乐,因此能否体验到绝妙的性生活,全凭交往的对象如何。
不过,[莎呜]女会擅自在恋爱和热情、结婚和经济之间画上等号,并被此过度局限,因而往往无法畅快地谈一场恋爱。生性严谨,却在心里幻想着如烈火般燃烧的热情,然后自个儿一头热,有时会让对方却步,必须注意。
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Lessons of LIFE
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12.. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God
never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is
up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for
an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't
save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will
this matter?".
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did
or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd
grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.
PS: received this from jiahui =) Feel more like sharing when I saw weiying post this too. Haha. enjoy! =))))
still photos for the 17th =P
us =)
nice nice picture
banyak tangan ni!
heida is happy with the strawberry.
heida felt so disappointed with the strawberry.
2nd surprised party :
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Just pictures for my 17th celebration =)
jinjie the mirror =)
with the most sincere love and care .
I love you, mother!
I love you too, DAD!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
真实 。 谎言
Saturday, December 12, 2009
If I wrote a NOTE TO GOD
I would speak what's in my soul
I'd ask for all the hate to swept away
for love to overflow
If I wrote a note to god
I'd pour my heart out on each page
I'd ask for war to end and for peace to mend this world
I'd say, I'd say
I'd say give us strength to make it through
help us find love cause love is overdue
and it seems like so much is going wrong
on this road we're on
If I wrote a note to god
I'd say please find us a way
End all the bitterness, put some tenderness in our hearts
I'd say, I'd say
Grant us the faith to carry on
Give us hope when it seems all hope is gone
Cause it seems like so much is going wrong
On this road we're on
No, no
We can't do it on our own!
So, so
IF I WROTE A NOTE TO GOD
ps: It is a must Listen song yet a must Watch video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4Xd435coD4
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
the only day in a year
Thursday, November 26, 2009
short note for chawyeh
yeah,i know you did had a lonely birthday.
and yea, like connie said, it seems like what i did is not enough for you.
but what i can say is..
wait for mine.. stay tuned. hahaha
i will do have something for you.
i dont promise it can be the best.
but i will do my best for you.
yeah, and i agreed that birthday during exams isnt a good thing.
but it may also be a wonderful memory which not everyone could have.
once in a lifetime?
there are so many birthdays to go.
be more open-minded. sacrifice one. you'll get a better birthday on the rest of your life i believe. =)
so, what i'm going to dedicate to you will not be here.
like i said, it is just a short note for you. hehe
alright, candidates for spm 2009 who are reading this.
kindly close the window and get back to study. LOL
GOOD LUCK everyone~~~!! WE CAN DO IT!
Just From Hippo Tan to Chaw yeh the MOmo!
Sunday, November 15, 2009
song to share
The title of the song is friend forever ( 排排坐 ) sang by 温力铭 featuring 童欣
thanks to vivian tan for introducing this song to me. It suits our feelings now. nice songs with simple yet meaningful lyrics! enjoy people!
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
the day before 111109
finally,
the day my book is out.
I fail to be the first one that can see its production.
Sad? Not really.
But that feeling kinda bad.
I dont like it.
the efforts that I have paid these 2 years
the day I've been waiting for has finally come
but still, I don't get the chance to share my excitement and joy with my dearest committee members.
yet, can't receive the feedbacks of the graduates of 57th in that particular moment
where people goes 'wah!' 'yer!' 'aaaahh!' 'yay!'
WHY 1111?! why why why?!
ahh, fine, I know I couldnt change anything already.
is already a fact that I should accept.
To my lovely committee members,
althought I'm not gonna with you guys to distribute our perfectly done graduation magazine,
still, please appreciate the moment and remember the days we shared together,
also, remember the scene where our friends receive the book with a BIG smile!
capture the good shots! I wanna feel it and see it!
come on, a proudly present graduation magazine for all graduates of year 2009!
good luck guys!
no matter what, I know we already did our very best! well done!
no matter how people comment about the book, to me, It is the perfect piece of all!
though I'm not with you guys tomorrow, my heart, soul and spirit will still be there with ALL of you!!!!
written by,
YiLing
-boss' assistant-
=)
Friday, October 16, 2009
不想告别 中学生涯
Sunday, October 11, 2009
累了,就把心事放下來...
Friday, October 9, 2009
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Friday, October 2, 2009
To 2009 PMR-ians
kath : enough liao la, go study!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
亲爱的 是我 。
Friday, September 25, 2009
乞丐
吃着, 有位靠着双手在地上移动的乞丐正朝向我们的桌子前来,
我爸应该是看他可怜,马上就拿口袋里的一令吉给他, 他说完 THANK YOU 就继续朝另一桌去。
接着, 有位 UNCLE 吹着口琴 (相信有去过那里的都应该看过他),也来向每一桌的顾客讨钱。
我猜想 : 我爸也应该是觉得施舍给他一些是满合理的, 起码他单靠他的一些才艺来筹钱。
所以, 爸也给了他一些零钱,没记错的话是五十仙。
不久, 有一位拿着拐杖的 AH PEK 一拐一拐的走向我们请我们帮一点忙,爸就给了他二十仙,
而隔壁桌的一位年轻人却拒绝捐钱给他,那 AH PEK 就在一旁碎碎念 “没有给, 我也是会讲SORRY 的”, 他就这样一直念一直念下去。
当然,这二位也有向我们道谢啦。
AH PEK 走了之后,老爸就在注意他走路的姿态,看完,摇了头,向我说 :“ ke eh ( 假的)”
我笑了笑,也沉默了一阵子, 心想 :若是我,我应该是不会施舍半分钱给他们, 或许是因为曾经在丁加奴看过 live 的假乞丐,所以我不相信他们,也不想去分辨是真是假。
对我而言, 有手有脚, 就一定能为社会贡献点什么, 而不是在那里利用及欺骗社会人士的善心来过日子。
那时候,我真的很不同意爸一直捐钱给他们,而且还一个接一个的, 有够过分!(指乞丐)
在回家的路途上,我反复的想了这一件事, “ when the rich knows how to share with the poor, then the beggars will no longer be by the roadside"
我在想的是 :如果说,我的一分钱,真的可以帮得了你的一时之需,或挽救一条生命, 我愿意捐出我的一分钱 ; 相反,如果你只想在哪里拍拍屁股走来走去等待钱从天而降,那,很抱歉,我一定不会帮你!
但,有时候,看到他们,一定会有怜悯之心,舍得不给吗?
你们呢?会施舍一些钱给他们吗? 会是多少呢? 在哪种情况下会施舍?
p/s:那天的 ending,有位 auntie,她, 没有任何残缺,也在那里讨钱,这一次, 我老爸终于摇头拒绝了。 哈哈!
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Nicknames . LOL
You may wonder what title do they won?
p/s 2: To the 5 of you, kindly let me know what are the names I left out. =P